Love is eerie, very loony and mysterious for human to fathom. it has been aboriginal! It’s nature! it's nature! It’s fun! And it's anguish. We misunderstand "LOVE" for "LUST", cohabited relationship is not totally love, and there is 20% of love and 70% of lust. In this brief equation you can cognizance that love has been what we operate with in relationships instead of love and when we depart, we blame love saying; "Love is wicked" "True love does not exist". All Lies!! According to the Scripture of the Bible, it was said that in john 3:16 "'for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son.." for God to proffer his begotten son as a sacrifice to wash away the sins of mankind is just to tell us that his love is undeniable. Love comes from the heart & not from the lips of the lips of the mouth that has lots of sweet things to say at every moment.
Religion in other hand has been an obstacle that averts/precludes lovers from someone that he/she idolize because he/she is from a different religion. a Damsel denies a bod's love just because for religion.. To hell with that! Being a Christian is good but don't use it as a shield of folly. Being devoted & pious has deceived many Christians into marriage which leads to Divorce.(where a little gossip can make both quarrel or even break up just for the fear of slander which either might have committed) "WE ARE THE CULPRIT OF OUR PREDICAMENTS".
True love can't deceive you, we make it inaccessible when we hostile it and go for lust. Yea! Truly love is bitterer and less enjoyable than lust (Just as Good & Evil) because it needs lots or comprehension. Love at first sight is 40% real, it can possibly be love but never at first sight, but when connected with efforts... it is deceived by one's attire. why do you love her at first sight. Wow! she has big boobs, well curved butts, I love the way she speaks (English fluently), the scent from her body is like wow1 heaven on earth then without consideration of her paragon.. What comes up next after admiration? if it's a woman of easy virtue, "SEX" and it's complete Lust. We find it so easy to fall in love, why? "Even I leave that bod. I’ll still find another who's even better". Isn’t that Loony? Don't ever make your gf/bf your priority in life because if you do, they will have assess to your life and when they are fed up, they show a "Red Card" what makes me think am we are in love? Only when we can proudly boost of being in love with you (especially women) in the midst of his/her friends not all, set him/her up with your comrade and await the result that follows. When it appears negatively, leave to forget him/her... It’s quite difficult but when forgotten, it brings relief. You never can tell till you fall a victim. Nobody will love to have a bf/gf that cheats on him/her. When positive, fasten that relationship, don't let it break.
Human beings are not immaculate so learn to fathom them. when you notice a girl / boy who feigns, please don't hesitate to renege because it's not love at all & any opportunity leads to your flaw (for those in engagement) when in a relationship, never listen to gossips cause haters are often there to renege both of you. Nothing is good as well nothing is bad. Because if not haters, life would have being nothing but a big mess. Life is good yet not easy.
Love is blind is a fatuous & blurted statement because love can’t be blind. You knew when you proposed to her & she agreed, you bought her expensive gifts out of conspicuous consumption, you had sex with her, took her out and had fun we sat its blind then when nothing improves it cause it has been exhausted they say love is cruel & blind. Ha-ha very hilarious. Don’t ever to numerous advice from your comrade when you have a little dispute with your bf/gf, sometimes it help, sometimes it kills. Just cogitate in a lonely place and remedy the situation personal. When you confide with one, it may lead to a big chance of turning from a best man to a match maker and then grabs any (gf/bf)
If many were to be asked why they are in love, majority will say ”because I love him/her” what a big lie! Most go into a relationship because of material things (things of the world) many go for lust & only few go for love.
There’s nothing wrong for a damsel to approach a guy for love. When you go for a girl/guy and he/she declines you severally, keep on going, there is no harm in trial, relax & exercise a little patience, he/she has something to figure out and settle and when she/he is done, he/she will come begging and when it’s the shy type, he/she will starts reciprocating gradually.
NOTE: LEARN YOUR MANNERS OF APPROACH!! It’s crucial.
Communication is a faster means to LUST but has little or nothing to do with LOVE.
KNOW WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE OR LUST!!!
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